We are supposed to offer seats to the elderly on buses, as it reflects traditional Chinese virtues. Because of my shy disposition, I normally do not take a seat on public transport simply to avoid blank stares for failing to give up my seat to a senior citizen.

One sunny day when I got on a bus, I found a free seat. Since there was no other standing passenger around, I took it. A few stops on, an elderly man on a cane got on board. About my grandpa’s age, he paused at the door, scanning the crowded aisle for a seat. I had no choice but to stand up and offer mine to him. With some hesitation, he sat down in it.

After the bus restarted, the elderly man struck up a conversation with me, asking a lot of questions about my school, my class, my grades and so on. His gentle manner of speaking gradually disarmed me, making me feel safe and comfortable. To my amazement, I was enjoying every second of it. Through our chat, it dawned on me that the grandpa was quite a good teacher, whose talk added a lot to my wisdom. His bright, optimistic outlook infected me.

All good things must come to an end. Before I knew it, it was time for the elderly man to get off. I suddenly felt a sense of loss. While he was bidding me farewell, he gave me his best wishes and wished me a good day. As the bus was pulling away, I kept waving at him until he went out of sight.

This encounter lasted for less than ten minutes, yet we interacted like good old friends. I felt my decision to give up my seat to the gentleman was so rewarding. It enabled me to meet such a noble character.

Your act of kindness will benefit you in more ways than you know.